The pi3 runs hotter than the pi2 (as the pi4 runs hotter than the pi3), it’ because of higher clocks and there fore more power usage that results in higher temps. The RAM issues I can’t explain however. (My Pi3+ runs at around 45-50C with a heatsink on the cpu.)
The Raspberry Pi 3's average SoC temperature unader load was 61C with a peak of 82C. Meanwhile, the Raspberry Pi 2 had an average temperature of 48.9C and a peak of 59.C
source :
https://www.phoronix.com/scan.php?page=news_item&px=RPi2-vs-RPi3-SoC-Temperature
Another reference :
https://www.martinrowan.co.uk/2019/07/raspberry-pi-4-power-temperature-at-idle/